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Friday, March 14, 2014

Faith Filled Friday: A Personal Note on the Departure of our Pastor

I’ve been bummed out all week, ever since the pastor at my church, Fr. Richard Veras of St. Rita’s on Staten Island, announced he was being transferred.  They have this rule in the New York City dioceses that a priest is assigned for six year terms to a parish, with the option of remaining for two terms or twelve years.  After that he must be reassigned unless he’s of retirement age.  For the past year I was worried about this.  I wasn’t sure which year Fr. Veras came to St. Rita’s but I suspected he was coming up on his six year term. One the one hand I figured they would give him a second term, since that is typically the case, but on the other hand I knew that Fr. Veras is special and I’m sure the dioceses would want him to serve in a higher capacity.  So at the end of Mass this past Sunday when just before dismissal he had us sit down for an announcement, and when he said that with such a solemn and glum expression, I had a feeling.  The feeling was correct.  He was being reassigned to a high school (Our Lady of Lourdes) in Poughkeepsie, NY where there was some important—I can’t remember exactly, going in one ear and out the other—need for his services.  Though the congregation seemed somewhat surprised, they gave him a round of applause.

What makes Fr. Veras special?  Well, first he writes, and perhaps I’m prejudice for writers but anyone who writes has formulated his thoughts into a coherence.  If you know the Catholic magazine, Magnificat, he’s a frequent contributor.   In fact if you have the current special Lenten edition, he’s in there.  Second, he’s written books.  I haven’t read any to endorse them, but here on Amazon you can see his two published works.  I’ll now have to buy one and check it out. 

Third he brings the community together around the church.  One of the first things he did when came was gather together all the reminisces of one of his predecessors, who was the pastor for several decades at St. Rita’s, and put it together into a book.  It was a decade’s long look at the life and times at the parish.  He organized parish trips and retreats and dinners.  The school is thriving and highly ranked.  He’s a leader in the regional Communion and Liberation Movement and he’s gotten some of the local high school kids to be a part of it.  Fourth he instituted a Lenten series where every Friday night during Lent he brings in a speaker or dramatist or musician which reflects our faith.  It’s wonderful and it now makes the newspaper as a major article.  Here’s the article for this year’sseries. 

The former Swiss Guard for Pope John Paul II now CEO was last week’s speaker and packed the church.  He was a great speaker.  Tonight is a dramatic monologue of St. Francis of Assisi performed by a professional actor.  I know people who come to these Lenten events from out of state.  You have to understand, we are a small, humble parish.  It takes a special person to entice speakers and musicians to come, and I’m pretty sure he’s not paying them.  Here’s a picture of our humble church looking down the nave.  It’s a flat roof, flat ceiling with a skylight and mundane stain glass windows that are way up on top where you can’t even see much of them.  Fr. Veras has put St. Rita’s on the map.


Fourth, coming to mass is special.  People say hello to each other, know each other, welcome each other.  I only know people by face, but they say hello to me too.  The rosary group, the prayer groups, the charitable events all pull people together around the parish.  The musical director is excellent and an opera singer in her other job.  Both the children’s choir and the adult choir have plenty of volunteers.  For Easter and Christmas we get additional musicians and singers.  They did a great Little Drummer Boy rendition with a really good drummer, who was probably ten years old, this past Christmas.  I met a person a few years ago and when I said I belonged to St. Rita’s parish he said he heard how something special was happening there.  He wondered what and I couldn’t answer him at the time.  But it’s been Fr. Veras.

Fifth, and finally the most important to me, Fr. Veras gives the best homilies.  At my son’s baptism he gave a wonderful homily connecting the baptism to the Old Testament.  Remember, my wife and her family are Jewish, and I know they felt a little uncomfortable.  He connected their tradition as it grew into the Christian tradition and made everyone feel at ease.  My mother’s cousin, who is an elderly priest and attended the baptism said afterward Fr. Veras was magnificent.  Here’s  a confession.  When I go to mass and it’s not Fr. Veras celebrating, I’m disappointed, especially if I expected him.  Besides being insightful on the scripture reading, he connects the readings with life, either his life or someone he encountered or read about.  And the central core of his preaching is that through friendship and love and community we encounter Christ.  It’s not just that He is present.  He is always present, but that through contact with others, through our sacrifice, we encounter Him tangibly.  Whether it was someone who saved another during the holocaust or a new born who was saved from an abortion or feeding the destitute at a soup kitchen, you physically encounter Christ.

I know I’m not doing his sermons complete justice.  You have to understand that I’ve only returned to the Church these last six years, which completely overlaps Fr. Veras’s tenure.  I’ve been a sinner, even an atheist and agnostic.  I’m not going to say the transformation was due solely to Fr. Veras.  No, there’s a multiplicity of reasons, including reading through the devotion of lots of Catholic bloggers on the internet, some of you who may be reading this now.  But Fr. Veras was a most important part of it.

I did find a picture of him on the web.  Here he is, a most humble man. 

On my recent Ash Wednesday post I said I was looking forward to Lent.  Well, if you’re looking forward to Lent, it’s probably not hard enough.  Now I can taste the bitterness of true Lenten sacrifice.


Lord, I thank you for the six years I was blessed to have Fr. Veras as pastor, and may his new assignment be means to enlighten many more people.  May his future be bright and may we carry his spirit forward with the transition.  In Christ I pray.

13 comments:

  1. What a lovely church!

    I sympathize with you about the loss of a favorite priest..sometimes it's even hard to see the not-so-great ones go. We've had 10 pastors in 20 years and yeah, they were all assigned for 6 years, too. They just don't last that long.

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    1. Thank you Jan. What is going on that they move them like that? I don't think it's right. Thanks on the compliment to the church. Perhaps I was being harsh. It's pretty but it's small.

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    2. Fact is, Manny, we just wear them out! The parish consists of three mission churches besides ours, and out priest drives over 100 miles between Sat eve and Sunday afternoon, plus there is a prison and a jail. We are not bilingual so much as two distinct languages, so it's difficult for all concerned.

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  2. I understand your sadness, Manny. We don't usually have one priest for six years, they are moved around a lot here in Philadelphia. I have had the privilege of knowing quite a few wonderful priests. One blogs, and I follow him on my sidebar. He had been a teacher, and I love how clear and instructional his homilies are. Another that we got to know as a very young priest at our parish, went first to Rome, and now is back in Philly, besides his main post, is heading the TLM that I attend. He does have other priests helping, but he is in charge. And yet another wonderful priest, though now in Tennessee, heads up the Jesus Retreat.
    Sometimes you have to seek out good teaching and holy priests, they aren't everywhere. I will pray God blesses St. Rita's with a wonderful priest to replace your beloved Fr. Veras. I am interested to read some of his writings. Funny, his name sounds like it comes from the word for truth.

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    1. Thank you. I don't like this policy of moving them around like this. You can't build a relationship. His last name does translate to Truth. I thought that was a great name for a priest.

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  3. Here in our Canadian City of The North, we also have a Saint Rita's parish where a lot of Italian people attend and it is almost as pretty as your church. :)

    Since my wife and I have moved in our new parish less than five years ago and long story short, we're now seen three "Priest" move on since then. (lol)

    Amen!

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    1. You too? I don't think this policy makes sense. But what do I know. Thank you for the compliment on the church. I guess it is pretty, but it's small.

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  4. What a wonderful write-up about your priest. It says a lot about you.

    Praying for your priest in his new assignement. And for you and your family too.

    God bless.

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  5. Manny, thank you for your wonderful blog about our favorite pastor, Fr. Richard Veras. You captured all the excellent qualities of our pastor which I can only say a big AMEN to all your narrations. Having seen, worked and been around with Fr. Veras at close range made me doubly sad for his leaving. But our loss is somebody's gain where his expertise and full potentials would be utilized. We are very thankful for his six years of stay with St. Rita, which as you said - "put St. Rita in the map."

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    1. You're welcome. But who are you? You should have left your name. I take it you also attend St. Rita's. If you see this reply, stop back and leave your first name. Or if you see me in church, please stop and say hello. I usually attend the 11 o'clock mass. Or here's my email: virgil15marlow@yahoo.com.

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    1. Cuqui
      I have your comment and appreciate it. However you mentioned last names, mine and yours and I would prefer no last names be out in public if it can be helped. Send me an email at virgil15marlow@yahoo.com. Thank you for your kind words.
      Manny

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