What concerns me is that he excludes any other type
of story at the expense of only superheroes.
He doesn’t even go for Lightening McQueen stories any more. If I insist and read him a traditional
children’s story, he accepts it and then does get into the story, even if he’s
heard it before. But his impulse is
superheroes.
I have a friend who claims he learned to read as a
child strictly on comic books. I tend to
believe him actually, and he didn’t turn out too bad in life, though I bet other than the newspaper and for his work he doesn't read much as an adult. So I’m probably making too much of it. I don't expect Matthew to be reading Shakespeare and the high literature I read, at least not yet. :-P It’s probably another one of these phases,
though this one seems to be lasting longer than the others.
I came across this Eyes On Heaven blog by an Ellen
Mady who seems to be a homeschooler and has a post titled, “11 Ways to Make Reading Fun for Your Kids.” The advice is for
kids a bit older who can read on their own, but it strikes me as being very
good ideas. Go over and read all eleven,
but the ones that strikes me as must do are (1) Designate a special location
for reading, (4) Set reading challenges and rewards, (5) Organize activities
that relate to the story or theme from the book you’re reading together, and (7)
Keep a yearly reading chart.
Anyone consider Ellen’s other ideas particularly
noteworthy? Do you have any other
ideas? Should I be worried about Matthew
and his superhero indulgence?
Here's the short answer: Matthew will either love to read, or he won't. He may decide when he can actually read words that he loves it, as did most of my kids. Right now my 10 y.o. hates to read anything that isn't Star Wars, but we make him read other things and its a struggle - hopefully he'll outgrow the childishness and decide that reading is great...if not, his life is going to be harder than it might have to be. If you can't read, you really can't write.
ReplyDeleteSince Matthew is attentive when you read "good stuff" to him, I wouldn't let it worry me at this point. You might try and teach him some sight words while he's looking at the pages of the books he likes -you know, learning without knowing he's learning:)
Thanks Jan.
ReplyDeleteAnd I meant to add...those evaluation printables are extremely important and I would definitely use the concepts right now-without him knowing what you're doing. No pressure, right? But they will help you determine whether or not he is comprehending what you are reading to him. The other ideas are good,too, if you feel like those will be helpful. In our house, there are so many distractions that we've all gotten pretty good at tuning everything else out when we read.
DeleteThanks again.
DeleteI tend to agree with Jan. For now you are perhaps worrying too much and too early. At least by reading Batman and Superman he is learning about the struggle of good against evil. An important lesson in today's world.
ReplyDeleteHow he'll turn out as he grows depends not just on his reading habits, but more important, on the example he gets from his parents. Loving, caring parents who are good role models are better than anything Shakespeare can teach. So you have no problems there.
Maybe as he grows, Matthew will be more interested in "technical" stuff like computers, medicine, science rather than the beauty of words from the hands of the great literature writers. Not everyone is interested in reading in the "literature" sense.
One more thing. Dedicate your son to God. Ask Our Lord to look after him and to let him grow up in His way, (God's way), not yours.
God bless you and your family. (Sorry to go on a bit).
Thanks. That's a good idea.
DeleteMy advice is not nearly as thorough as Jan's, but I think, don't worry. It is good that Matthew wants to read and I think, normal that he has the interests of a young boy. He is still getting exposure to language and words! His interests will mature as he does. And with a dad like you, he will be exposed to a wide range of literature. You set that great example, and it's fantastic that you read to him and he submits to other kinds of books.
ReplyDeleteYes, perhaps I'm being a worry wart here. I didn't start reading until second or third grade. If anything he's miles ahead of me. Thanks.
DeleteThank you Victor. I'm sure you were a good father to your girls.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry, the important thing is that he is reading- or showing an interest in reading. Lots of kids don't know how to read anymore, they can read text but not actual books. Keep finding exciting things for him to read. Maybe other adventure stores that do not have super heros but explorers, pirates, mountain men,. Tom said to tell you to get him the comic books Classics Illustrated which takes the classics and puts them into comic book format so Robin Hood, etc.
ReplyDeleteHey that's really good idea, the comic book classics. I'll see if I can still find them. Thank Tom for me!
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