"Love follows knowledge."
"Beauty above all beauty!"
– St. Catherine of Siena

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Sunday, September 4, 2022

Sunday Meditation: To Hate Your Parents?

Let me only quote the part of today’s Gospel reading that gets everyone’s attention?

 

Great crowds were traveling with Jesus,

and he turned and addressed them,

“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother,

wife and children, brothers and sisters,

and even his own life,

he cannot be my disciple.

Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me

cannot be my disciple.

        Lk 14:25-26

 


Now that is some passage.  Does Christ, who wants us to love all, actually mean that we are to hate the very people closest to us?  One can shrug this off as hyperbole, and it is on its surface, but there is actually something deeper when one understands the Hebrew culture Christ is coming from.

From Aleteia’s article on this passage:

 

In the Bible, the expression “to hate” means “to love less.” For example, in the Old Testament, Leah says the Lord has heard that she was loved less by her husband Jacob (Gen 29:33). The word used in the Hebrew original is precisely the word “hate” (senu’a).

 

The very same word is used by Jesus to indicate that those who want to follow Him must choose loving Jesus as their first and foremost love. Such love does not by any means exclude loving one’s family or oneself. However, the love of Christ is the greater love. 

 

So now let’s jump to the end of the Gospel passage, where Jesus continues:

 

 

“In the same way,

anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions

cannot be my disciple.”

Lk 14:33

 

So, now fully understanding the analogy above, meditate on Christ’s conclusion.



Friday, July 2, 2021

Things Worth Dying For by Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, Post 3

This is the third post on Things Worth Dying by Archbishop Chaput. 

You can find post #1 here. 

Post #2 here.  

  


Here’s how I breakdown chapter six.

(1) Ideology as Religion—Zamyatin’s novel, We—A Noble Idea Turned Poisonous—American Idea Anchored in Pragmatism—French Revolution Anchored in Secular Ideology—Human Reason Over Divine Revelation.

(2) Nazi Ideology in Opposition to Divine Revelation—Scientific Marxism of the Soviet Union—All Have Roots in the French Revolution—Tocqueville on the French Revolution—French Revolution as Anti Christian—Modern Revolutions are Shaped by Christianity—Ideologies Have Consequences.

(3) Supercomputing—Human Endeavor—Tools—Knowledge vs. Wisdom—Scientism as Modern Ideology—Yuval Noah Harari’s Decoupling—A World Ruled by Science.

(4) Rod Sterling’s “The Caterpillar”—Metaphor for Ideologies—Technology Driven Culture—World of Everything Here and Now—The Church and the Faults of the Past—The Church is Not an Ideology—Christianity is Alive Because of Jesus Christ.

The general gist of each of the sections can be articulated as thus:

(1) “The roots of modern revolutionary impulse” can be traced to the French Revolution and its antecedents. 

(2) “Ideas, and the ideologies and the system of thought they breed, have consequences,” and the mass killings from the French Revolution to the present are the horrible consequences.

(3) Scientism is the most current ideology, and equally holding the potential for human catastrophe.

.(4) The Christian faith is not an ideology because its “beating heart” is love, and that love is Jesus Christ.

And so a summing statement of chapter six cold be thus: Since the French Revolution to the present, ideologies have rested on the notion of perfecting human society and has had catastrophic consequences.  All these ideologies fail because they either fail to take the love that stems from God as its operating mode or reject that love outright. 

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My Comment:

I did a search on YouTube for that Night Gallery story the Abp mentions, "The Caterpillar. I couldn't find it. But I did find this man's rating of the ten best Night Gallery stories and he had "The Caterpillar" as the tops by far. Worth watching.



 

If someone finds the actual full episode, please post a link; I would love to see it.

My Comment:

Perhaps it’s not controversial—or perhaps it is, and please discuss if you think it is—that all these modern ideologies stem from the French Revolution, with all of them leading to the mass killings of the centuries past.  It is also interesting that he concludes these panoply of “isms” with the current fad of scientism.  In my opinion all these “isms” are a version of scientism of their particular day.  All of them believed they had a new approach to managing human society that it was based on a scientific principle, either man as being an animal or human being as merely a biological device.  It reduced the soul and therefore the dignity out of man.  Remember the Enlightenment based their notions on experiment and the scientific method.  The metric system came out of the Enlightenment.  Certainly there are technological positives that have come out of that, but stripping God out of humanity and society has led to devastating consequences.  Science has always been at the heart of this.  Think of how much Freudian psychology, despite it being a complete fallacy and unscientific, has altered our notion of man and human sexuality.  They are still trying to alter human sexuality based on pseudo-scientific notions of sexuality.  Today’s modern world view can not only be traced to the French Revolution, but is itself the same world view.

 

By the way, I could never and still can’t understand why they celebrate Bastille Day.  This was the beginning of the French Revolution and its homicidal events, leading to tens of thousands of deaths under the Reign of Terror.  And then factor in the Napoleonic Wars that came afterward, and the deaths are in the millions.  Bastille Day should be a moment of national shame, not celebration.

Frances Replied:

Archbishop Chaput has a great fondness for the movie “Casablanca,” and I think most of us consider it one of the best movies of all time. Remember, however, one of the highlights of that film, the moment when Viktor Laszlo instructs the band to play “La Marseillaise,” one of the most familiar national anthems in history. It’s a wonderful, exhilarating scene — but have all of us read the English translation of the song’s lyrics? They’re quite a surprise.

My Reply to Frances:

Good heavens, I didn't know. Hitler could have written that. You can hear it with English subtitles here:



 

Catherine Replied to My Comment:

I agree with you, Manny, that the modern ideologies stem from the French Revolution. And while their beliefs of enlightenment based on scientific principle are what they tout as driving their ideology, they aren't without their human elements of avarice, manipulation, and egoism. At the beginning of the Revolution, the clergy were forced to sign the oath to the Civil Constitution of the Clergy in order to ensure the clergy's fidelity to the French government rather than the Church in Rome. In spite of some of the abuses that existed in the Church in France, the people were still faithful and devout in their Catholic beliefs. The Catholic priest in the villages played a central role in the lives of the people, much to the chagrin of the revolutionaries. So it was their intention to use the clergy, manipulating them to sign the oath and prohibiting them from preaching anything contrary to the tenets of the Revolution. The priests were no longer paid through the Church but rather through the revolutionary government. Those that didn't sign the oath faced severe chastisements such as removal of financial support and, in some cases, the ultimate sacrifice of martyrdom. While most religious orders were suppressed and disbanded, charitable orders were allowed to continue, which meant keeping the schools and hospitals functioning. These were purely selfish reasons as at that time the Church was the primary provider of these services. Of course restrictions were put in place. Schools were not allowed to teach the Faith but instead the glories of the Revolution. The sisters who served in the hospitals were not allowed to wear their habits. Then there was the financial component, where the greed comes in. The seizing of the Church properties wasn't just about trying to eradicate the Church. The French economy was in a terrible state, not only because of the famine in 1788 but their involvement in wars that they couldn't afford. The French Church was seen as this big cash cow that they now controlled and would use to fund the Revolution. It was only through this kind of manipulation and greed that they could attempt to push forth their ideology. To your point, this approach has repeated itself multiple times whether in the context of a revolution or simply a change to our society/culture. Our Christian brothers and sisters are experiencing this today in China, Hong Kong, the Middle East and Africa. Is it coming to the US? I do fear we will begin to see this in the US. That sounds a bit dramatic but doesn't the situation with the Little Sisters of the Poor sound a bit like this approach?

My Reply to Catherine:

Great comment Catherine. There is so much commonality between the French "Enlightenment" and it's progeny. There really is a direct line of thought that goes from the French Revolution to Nietzsche to Communism, Nazism, and all the contemporary ideologies that are running through our world now. And the common denominator is an application of pseudo science on the human condition. Yes, the hostility to religious people is real, especially in the universities. I don't think we have reached a point where they will start guillotining religious people or putting us in gulags, but they certainly have the impulse and historical precedent to do so.




Sunday, May 22, 2016

Short Story for Mother’s Day: “Hallelujah, Family” by Ludmilla Petrushevskaya

Happy Mother’s Day!  I know, that was two weeks ago.  So happy belated mother’s day.  I meant to post something special for Mother’s Day, as I usually do, but I didn’t realize it and posted on the word, “scorbutic.”  Scurvy and Mother’s Day do not exactly go together, LOL.

But then I thought that a short story I recently read, : “Hallelujah, Family” by Ludmilla Petrushevskaya would make a good post honoring motherhood.  I have forgotten how I came across the Russian author, Ludmilla Petrushevskaya.  Her name caught my eye somewhere, and so I bought her collection of short stories with the intriguing tittle, There Once Lived A Girl Who Seduced Her Sister’s Husband, And He Hanged Himself: Love Stories, translated into English by Anna Summers.  Elissa Schappel in a NY Times book review of this collection points out that the “Love Stories subtitle characterizes her a modern day Anton Checkov.  

A few stories capture a character in a Checkovian moment of clarity; some read like family lore, recounted without fanfare or urgency; others echo the gossip women exchange like currency.  What is consistent is the dark, fatalistic humor and bne-deep irony Petrushevskaya’s characters employ as protection against the biting cold of loneliness and misfortune that seems their birthright.   

Ellen Wernecke in this book review points out the “Love Stories” subtitle is ironic.  

The love affairs Petrushevskaya depicts arrived soaked in the futility of the world where they take place, with family and geography cuffing them even when the desire is mutual. In “Young Berries,” the Grimm-est of the tales and a reminder of Petrushevskaya’s breakout collection, a girl fielding a phone call from her first crush is surrounded first by threatening classmates in a forest, and then by her nosy relatives; unable to enjoy the moment, she makes her excuses and hangs up. A grandmother’s cane watching over a woman who brings a man home in “Two Deities” stands in for a lifetime of intrusion disguised as affection, and during the tryst, Petrushevskaya writes, “the grandmother never left the room.” The characters’ emotional lives mirror the Soviet-era privations under which they live. Feeling is often their main extravagance, but it sometimes proves too costly.

I’ve only read this one story, but reading having read this story and having read about the themes in the other stories through the reviews, it strikes me that what is missing in these reviews is pointing out that at the heart of the Petrushevskaya world is a breakdown in the family unit and a collapse in the moral values that held the family together in the first place.  I could not find the original published dates of her stories, but she has been writing since the 1970s, which means she has been writing in late Soviet Union, through the collapse of communism, and through post-communist Russia.  It would not surprise many to see works documenting the dysfunctionality of family life over those years in Russia.

There is no story in the collection given the title that is the title of the collection.  I looked specifically for it but I did find that “Hallelujah, Family” was that story about a girl who seduces her brother-in-law.  This was story under a different title.

Aesthetically what caught my eye about this story was the style.  This is the first story I have ever seen told in bulleted, almost outline, form.  Here’s the beginning:

This, in short, is what happened.

1. A young girl worked as a secretary during the day and took classes at night. She came from a respectable family, although her mother had a certain history:

2. She was the illegitimate child of two mothers and one father—you see,

3. there were two sisters: one was married, the other was just fifteen, and she got pregnant by her brother-in-law, who hanged himself while she gave birth to a daughter she hated.

4. That daughter grew up, got married, and had a baby, a daughter.

5. That daughter was our little secretary/student, Alla. Our Alla began to go out with men as soon as she turned fifteen. Her mother cried and scolded her, but nothing helped, and the mother began to lose her mind. In addition to which, she was diagnosed with an illness

6. that promised immobility. She and Alla got along horribly, because

7. Alla was raised by her grandmother (3), who hated her daughter, Alla’s mother, and who, at thirty-five, took her little granddaughter to live with her in a provincial town where she shared a house with her uncle, a much older man.

8. Who knew what lay behind the cohabitation of a fifty-year-old uncle and his niece, the only ones left from a large family after all the wars, arrests, divorces, forced and unforced deaths.

And so the story goes on like this in numbered bullets, all the way to bullet number 45, without any dramatization.  Between the bullets there is implied drama, very intense drama actually, but no traditional narrative.  Works of art that deviate from an aesthetic norm need to justify the deviation, otherwise it’s just a novelty.  Is this just a novelty or is there an aesthetic reason for the form?

What the form made me do as a reader was to reconstruct the convoluted family tree in a way that straight narrative would just tell.  The bulleted items have a progression that is not necessarily chronological, and so one has to piece together relationships.  Here is my reconstruction: There is the 15 year old niece who gets pregnant by her brother-in-law; the child’s name is Elena who had a child named Alla, the central character of this story.  Alla goes on to have an illegitimate daughter of her own named Nadya.  And so you have four generations of women each linked through motherhood to the subsequent generation.  The bulleted form focuses the reader’s attention to tangled web of dysfunctionality.

But I think even more important than forcing to the reader to focus on the generational relationships, the bulleted form deconstructs in a clinical style the lives of the characters to their bare dysfunctional selves.  It’s clinical in the sense that it’s like a psychological case study, and it brings the dysfunctionality to the foreground. 

What this story is ultimately about is family and the centrality of motherhood in the family.  It’s the relationship of the mother to the child that shaped each dysfunctional family.  We see this with Alla and her decision to keep her baby after getting pregnant.


11.  Then Alla, unmarried, gave birth.  Her mother, stooped over, shuffled around, washing diapers, cooking, cleaning.  All this she did grudgingly, as there was no money in the house.  Elena lived on her invalid’s pension; her husband had died, and Alla wasn’t working, having just given birth to a daughter, Nadya.  Elena’s memory of her terrible past—of her illegitimate father’s death in the noose, of her quiet teenage mother—weighed Elena down, and she nagged and nagged poor Alla, who’d huddle by the baby’s crib and try not to cry.

12. Little Nadya had a father, but he lived with Alla only sporadically, considering her used-up material.  He had made her pregnant twice, and when it happened the third time, Victor—who saw himself not as a future father but simply as facilitator of another abortion—put Alla in a cab and directed the driver to the same hospital.  He told the driver to wait, walked Alla to the ward, and pecked her on the cheek.  This time, though, he left before she changed into the sterile hospital robe, so he didn’t take her street clothes from her.

13.  Alla spent the night in the ward, thinking—that she was twenty-five, that Victor had left her, that all her future held were random liaisons with married men.  As morning approached, Alla hugged her belly and felt she had a family, that she was no longer alone.

The child gives Alla incredible power, allowing her to reign in the wayward Victor, with the help of Victor’s mother it should be noted.  The woman gains power through motherhood, while the child becomes a tool to acquire that power.  It’s not the noblest of means, but the result is family.


Some questions come to mind as one contemplates the story.  Was the series of the dysfunctional families all rooted and caused from the initial girl who seduced her brother-in-law?  Or were the dysfunctional families independently dysfunctional from values widespread in the broken society at large?  Perhaps both is the answer.  Will Victor settle into his fatherly responsibilities or will he replicate a similar sort of outcome as that brother-in-law who fornicated with his wife’s sister?  The questions don’t get answered.