A note.
This was last Sunday’s Gospel reading.
I’m still a week behind but I should have this Sunday’s shortly.
For the Thirty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time (31st was passed over for All Saints Day) we see Christ in the midst of the End of Times Discourse. In this and the next two Sundays, Jesus will recite three parables, one for each Sunday from chapter 25 from the Gospel of Matthew. Today, the first of the parables, is the Parable of the Ten Virgins.
You know the parable. Ten virgins with lamps are waiting for the Bridegroom to come. Apparently there was a Jewish custom for maidens to light the way of the bridegroom’s entrance to his wedding feast. Five virgins had oil for their lamps and five did not. The five that had not asked for some from those who did, and they were turned down. They had to go off to buy it for themselves. In the meantime, the Bridegroom arrived and the five with oil lit the way. When the other five arrived, they were shut out of the feast.
As with most parables, there are twists in the story that are paradoxical. For one, how can the kingdom of heaven be like ten virgins? It’s like saying my house is like a squad of baseball players. It’s a category mistake. And why don’t the wise virgins share their oil with the other five? Isn’t sharing an act of kindness? Three years ago when this reading came up, I embedded a video from Dr. Brant Pitre explaining the paradoxes. You can find that here.
Those paradoxes make sense in parable’s
symbolism. The ten virgins stand for the
preparation and waiting which are like the kingdom of heaven. The oil that is asked to be shared can
symbolize a number of things: faith, hope charity, or the Holy Spirit within
you. You can’t share any of those three. You either have them or don’t.
Today’s Gospel:
Jesus told his disciples this
parable:
"The kingdom of heaven will be
like ten virgins
who took their lamps and went out to
meet the bridegroom.
Five of them were foolish and five
were wise.
The foolish ones, when taking their
lamps,
brought no oil with them,
but the wise brought flasks of oil
with their lamps.
Since the bridegroom was long
delayed,
they all became drowsy and fell
asleep.
At midnight, there was a cry,
'Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to
meet him!'
Then all those virgins got up and
trimmed their lamps.
The foolish ones said to the wise,
'Give us some of your oil,
for our lamps are going out.'
But the wise ones replied,
'No, for there may not be enough for
us and you.
Go instead to the merchants and buy
some for yourselves.'
While they went off to buy it,
the bridegroom came
and those who were ready went into
the wedding feast with him.
Then the door was locked.
Afterwards the other virgins came
and said,
'Lord, Lord, open the door for us!'
But he said in reply,
'Amen, I say to you, I do not know
you.'
Therefore, stay awake,
for you know neither the day nor the
hour."
~Mt: 25:1-13
For the exegetical homily, I will return to Fr. Tim Peters. Father Tim does provide great exegetical
homilies, but they do run long. I can
only excerpt a few passages here, but it’s worthy of a complete listen.
Fr. Tim:
And this is the
reason why the wise virgins cannot give their oil to the foolish ones. And look
at what they say. For our lamps are going out.
And the wise replied, "Perhaps there will not be enough for us and
for you. Go rather to the dealers and
buy for yourselves." So you you're going to have to get this yourself.
That's the idea. The parable is trying
to underline certain concepts of faith and when it when it comes to faith and especially
the virtues of faith. I cannot give my righteous works to other people. I
cannot give my faith to other people. I cannot give my repentant heart to other
people. They have to repent of their sins. They have to believe in the Gospel
and they have to make a decision to serve our Lord Jesus Christ. And
essentially that's what's going on. There's certain things I cannot give.
Repentance, faith, belief in the Gospel, and a true disposition to serve
Christ. Each of us has to make that choice. And we have to ask God for those
gifts. And so they send them away.
And when they went away
to buy, you know, while they were gone, it says the bridegroom came. Okay? And
the idea is very simple. They weren't
ready for the return of the bridegroom. They went away to seek what they did
not have. And those who were ready went in. So the parable [is] not focusing on
generosity. [The] parable is focusing on
being ready every day for Jesus to return. So they went in with him to the
marriage feast. They went in with him to the great celebration that we will
celebrate when Christ comes again. This great celebration is known as the
marriage supper of the lamb. And it says the door was shut. In other words the
situation was permanent. After the bridegroom came, the situation could not be
changed. And this parable is trying to underline something beautiful about the
faith that one that we always need to be ready for Jesus to come again. And we
need to live the faith with that disposition and with that and if we have that
disposition, it will change the way that we see the world. It will change the
way that we treat others. But when Christ comes again, there will be a
separation that will be permanent between the righteous and the unrighteous,
the just and the unjust, faithful and the unfaithful. And what our Lord is
saying in this parable is so profound. He's saying that some people just are
not ready for him to return. They're living
with a lukewarm faith. They haven't really made a commitment to follow him. Their
faith is a once- in a- faith, but it's not a true committed faith. They're not
truly repented of their sins, and they haven't changed their lives.
So it says afterwards
the other maidens came also saying Lord open to us. These are the maidens or
virgins who weren't ready. And he
replied, “truly I say to you, I do not know you.” And so something profound is being underlined
here at the end of the parable. The bridegroom is saying to those who were not
prepared, he's saying, "I don't know who you are." And this is
telling us something about the faith that we live. Our faith is a true knowing
of Jesus. This is what it means to be a Catholic Christian. That we live out
the faith in all fullness. Knowing the
Lord, loving the Lord, and serving the Lord. That's what our faith is. A true
knowing of Christ, a true loving of Christ, a true serving of Christ. And
here's our Lord saying, "I don't know who you are. You weren't living the faith in all
fullness." And this is so profound. We have to ask ourselves this
question. Am I authentically living the
faith in a way which is a true authentic expression of knowing Jesus. And this is something to truly contemplate
every day. The concept of knowing Christ, it comes up again in Matthew's Gospel
and I want to say also chapter 13. But it's underlined a few times in Matthew's
Gospel that a living faith that knows Jesus. And that's the emphasis of the parable
here. The ones who are ready, the ones who have the oil, they know Christ. And
so our Lord says, "Watch therefore." We live our faith in vigilance. Watch therefore, for you know neither the day
or the hour. And there's a humble vigilance that we must have where we humbly
walk with Christ every day, serving him, waiting for him to return and knowing
that, you know, he might come, he might come a thousand years from now, he
might come tomorrow, but I'm waiting for him to return today. That's the way
I'm living the faith every single day of my life. So, let's talk about why this
The concept of “knowing” Jesus is very profound. The word “knowing” is used in the Old
Testament as in a sexual knowing. It has
that sort of intimacy. While it’s not
used in that way here, the connotation extends to about as intimate a knowing
as possible.
I’m going to turn to someone new for the pastoral sermon, Tanya Rybarczyk from U.S. Catholic Magazine, Sunday
Reflection.
Tanya Rybarczyk:
As a young person,
this passage was easily one of my least favorite in scripture. First, the
notion of all these virgins hanging around in the dark waiting for the
bridegroom annoyed me. In my mind, I
pictured them in their flowing, blinged out party dresses, all silk and crepe,
having to fall asleep on the dank and dirty ground while they waited for his
arrival. And finally, his grand
entrance. I pictured it on a white horse, more fairy tale than scripture, but
still a superstar with all his adoring virgin fans. And all this fussing over the oil, I couldn't
help but wonder, why did every virgin have to have their own lamp? Wasn't there enough light for them all to see
by? And why couldn't those with oil share? Isn't that the Christlike virtue we
all learn in kindergarten? And why, for
heaven's sake, did the virgins, who forgot their oil, need to be punished so
severely? The door shut forever on the
entrance to the feast into heaven because of one forgetful moment. One little
error. I remember being appalled and not a bit frightened. The questions that
spun in my mind were these. Was getting into heaven so hard that one error
could banish me forever from Christ's presence?
Thankfully, today I
see the story quite differently. I see it solidly as one of anticipation and
hope and love and the responsibility we owe that love. In the framing of today's parable, Jesus is
referring to early Palestinian Jewish marriage customs, which tell us that the waiting
maidens are likely young family members of the bridegroom. In other words, they
know him. They may have grown up with him. They have a relationship with him. Furthermore, a delay in his arrival is to be
expected because the final marriage contract needs to be negotiated before the
celebration can take place. The maidens
who love the bridegroom dearly, the wise ones are excited enough in their
anticipation of this event prepare. Their
focus is on their love for him and the celebration, the party that will
commence upon his arrival. The foolish
virgins on the other hand and notice the word is foolish not forgetful. They
don't bother to prepare. They like the
wise also know the groom but their focus is not on him or what is an important
day for him. The celebration these maidens know will be coming isn't enough of
a priority to pull them away from their foolish pursuits and to prepare
themselves. The foolish virgin's love
for him is not the same as that of the wise.
Keeping vigil in
today's gospel doesn't require perfection or strenuous will or ignoring bodily
needs like rest or courting burnout. It
does require shining the light in the darkness, lighting the way for Christ
symbolized in the bridegroom. And in
this today's parable echoes a theme we hear throughout our scriptures. Upon his arrival, the wise maidens rise and
trim the wicks of their lamps, removing the dark char of the wicks so their
flames can burn bright and clear. In
this light, Christ sees them. He recognizes their faces, knows who they are in
the halo of this light. What does your
lamp look like these days? Is it full of oil or running a bit low? And if low,
what needs attention to keep it not only from burning out, but burning bright? Are there steps you can take to fill that
reservoir? rest, prayer, service, community.
I really enjoyed this.
This was excellent from beginning to end, a little jewel of a sermon!
Sunday Meditation: “Therefore, stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour."
This lovely hymn is appropriate for today’s message, “Immortal, Invisible,
God Only Wise.”
Immortal, invisible,
God only wise,
In light inaccessible
hid from our eyes,
Most blessed, most
glorious, the Ancient of Days,
Almighty, victorious,
Thy great name we praise.
Unresting, unhasting,
and silent as light,
Nor wanting, nor
wasting, Thou rulest in might;
Thy justice like
mountains high soaring above
Thy clouds which are
fountains of goodness and love.
To all life Thou
givest, to both great and small;
In all life Thou
livest, the true life of all;
We blossom and
flourish as leaves on the tree,
And wither and
perish, but nought changeth Thee.
Great Father of
Glory, pure Father of Light
Thine angels adore
Thee, all veiling their sight;
All praise we would
render, O help us to see:
’Tis only the
splendour of light hideth Thee,
We are wise only as we reflect God’s wisdom.





























